Oh! For Fucks Sake!

To be blunt... Johns "mother" aka Womb for Rent... is a REAL piece of work. It takes a lot to get me pretty fired up, but this woman has managed to piss me off in more ways than I'd ever imagine.

Throughout the time I've been with Eric and John, I've noticed that Johns mother has managed to alienate him and make it a point to be a void in his life. Given, she's not physically present since she walked out on both Eric & John when John was at the ripe age of 3. She remarried to a guy who in all honesty, sounds like a nice guy... popped out 2 more kids...then BAM, divorcing husband #2 and is now living in Indianapolis with a guy who is 6 years older than JOHN that she met off of the internet. Stand up individual. She offers nothing as far as emotional love towards John. I LOVE John like he's MINE. What absolutely infuriates me is that she always tells John that she's "too busy" and she'll call him when she can... which is extremely rare. She'll text rather than call. HELLO! He's your SON. He wants to hear your VOICE, not a fucking text you stupid bitch!

Eric filed for Child Support last November since she had finally pissed us off enough to where we're holding her financially liable. Out of all the years she's been gone, not once has she taken it upon herself to actually assist with anything to do with John (finanically)..hell.. anything to that matter. Never buys him clothes, nothing for school.. hell, when she actually sent him something for his 10th birthday, it was something that was meant for a 3 year old, not 10 year old. John will call, call, call, and call, but she'll never pick up, BUT, she'll text him back. It's to the point where he doesn't even bother attempting to call her because he knows it's a waste of time. He'll try, but it's not as often as it used to be. How sad is it to know that your 12 year old kid actually BET that his mom wouldn't call for his BIRTHDAY? Hummm?? The brutal truth is that you, as a mother, have failed this kid in so many ways.. he's starting to see you for what you really are.

Worthless.

In the midst of dealing with Child Support, as I had mentioned earlier, Johns mother is now living in Indianaopolis with her new boy toy. She texts Eric these little sob stories about how Child Support is garnishing her wages and wants him to "call them off" since she needs the money. She's "trying to survive on her own with two babies". Lady. Hate to break it to you.. but you're a big girl now. It was your choice to pop out two more kids. It was your choice to walk away from your husband not once, but twice. You tell us that you can't afford the Child Support payments, yet you moved across the country for an internet love interest, got enrolled in Culinary School.. dump money into World of Warcraft... YET.. you can't pay what you OWE to John? Are you fuckin' kiddin' me? Seriously? Your two younger kids aren't even with you. They're staying at your Mothers in Georgia, or did you not notice that? Oh that's right.. real mothers take care of their kids, not dump and run.

*** VENT VENT VENT VENT VENT ***

I'm so irritated right now because this wonderful specimen of TRASH has found yet another way to slow down our process of moving. We needed her "conscent" for us to take John overseas, otherwise, we can't taken John without BOTH paternal parents acknowledging that he'll be out of the country. She actually filled out that paperwork and notarized it, sent it back. Got Johns TOURIST Passport all taken care of which is actually sitting on the desk next to me. The pisser is that we need an additional passport for him called a "No Fee Passport". That passport allows John and myself to live in Belgium because we're there on government orders rather than being there just as tourists. In all honesty, I wish to hell that the Outbound Office pulled their heads out of their asses and informed us of that at the SAME TIME they informed us about our orders to Beligum. But no, that'd be something that requires common sense.

So now here we sit "needing" Johns mother to sign yet another release form for a passport. This time, she's not doing it. Why? Because she doesn't want to pay Child Support. Hah. Nice. Eric contacted Child Support about the situation, and they even send her a registered packet containing the passport information because it's NEEDED. She never responded. I personally sent her the passport forms in addition to some pictures of John she was wanting. Yet, no response. I see how this is gonna be.

Eric contacts her today and she made it loud and clear... she's not signing anything till Child Support stops garnishing her checks. We're not stopping the garnishing. Every penny we get from her is getting locked into a Savings Account for John. WE'RE not touching it. Everything that he receives from her goes to him and him only. This woman doesn't comprehend the concept of responsibility. She has the nerve to give us an ultimatum like that? Sorry Hunny. You have no idea what you just started.

Is it me or did I just hear the fight bell ring?

Bring it.